Vortrag

Flyeraktion

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Dealing with contacts is quite static compared to other topics. You almost have to

follow a few rules so that contact can be established and maintained. But here too

there are some forms of variation. There are many different ways of establishing

contact in our world. While I like to communicate with people in writing, others prefer

to be face to face with the person they are talking to or hear their voice on the phone.

The best way to find which exchange is best for you is to try it out. 

In this day and age, you can easily find like-minded people who use the same methods

of exchange, you just have to keep your eyes open

Nevertheless, when you make contact with a person, it is important to respond to their

needs regarding communication. Sending a letter to someone without a permanent

address doesn’t make much sense. 

But the type and frequency of contact can also be designed in certain ways as long as

both sides have no problem with it. Do I really have to call my girlfriend every day or

is there a different rhythm? Do I really always have to follow all the rules of

politeness towards my conversation partner, or can I sometimes be direct or flippant?

Can it also be a joke? All of this can be found out through conversation or

experimentation and doesn’t have to follow any rules. 

Personally, I feel most comfortable when I can say what I mean directly and even

make false jokes, if it is okay for the other person. Respect for the other person must

always be considered.

For me, pen friendships are also quite suitable as I like written exchanges better than

verbal ones. The reason for this is that I can formulate what I want to say at a more

relaxed pace and rewrite every sentence until I send it off. On the other hand, I can

also reread information that my conversation partner has given me later in peace or

read it through until I can remember it or have it well understood.